Betrayal. Anger. Humiliation.
Are you feeling me?!
If you are, this is for you.
It’s about choosing your response to a situation instead of just reacting.
The difference is when you get to stay in control of your own thoughts, feelings, and actions because RESPONDING INTUITIVELY changes the way a situation plays out.
It doesn’t have to turn to shit… right?!
A reaction to a situation leads to betrayal, anger, humiliation.
A response that is intuitive, talked through, understood, tends to lead to peace of mind, grace, love.
A response is thought out. A reaction is ill-considered.
I know it’s not easy to respond more carefully. I know you might want to just get angry and pissed off with the world. Maybe you’re inclined to beat yourself up. Maybe you tend to react before you can get to that healthier response.
But it’s possible to stay in control. It just takes a little practice. AND if you’re willing to put in that practice, you’ll get more of what you want in life, because you’ll stop reacting to shit that’s out of your control.
It IS possible to stop throwing your weight around, to tune in, listen to your intuition and follow that instead of the fear that is making you feel alone, angry and upset with yourself.
Your intuition will likely tell you that your self-respect is not based on a situation, circumstance or person. That the way you feel about yourself is exactly that – the way YOU feel about YOURSELF. It’s internal. And therefore in YOUR control.
You can stand up, build courage, open your mind. You can walk away, stay, close the door, or open it wider as your intuition guides. You don’t have to wait for anyone to catch up. And you don’t have to leave. You just have to follow that inner voice.
Your intuition will always tell you what’s right in the moment, not what you ‘think’ you ‘should’ do. And what’s right in this moment may not be right in the next. That’s why it’s a guiding force, a response, an act of grace, instead of a reaction based on the fear of what ‘might’ happen.
Listen more deeply to that voice within you and you’ll find the answers you need.